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妈妈,我是怎么从你肚子里出来的?

发布时间:2016/08/14 育儿乐园 浏览次数:320

      宝宝今年5岁,之前已经明白自己是从妈妈的肚子里来的,最近又对怎么出来的感兴趣。因为是剖腹产,所以不太敢和孩子说实话,主要怕吓着他。他还自己想象是不是妈妈从嘴巴里把他吐出来的,就像吃多了东西那样的,描述的有声有色。我该怎样告诉他呢?请不吝赐教,谢谢!

——–中国妈妈问

来自美国圣地亚哥的Shauna

我认为你完全可以告诉他实情。让他知道,一些妈妈不得不接受剖腹产,这样小宝宝才能来到这个世界,而剖腹产就是医生做的一种手术,如果他想了解更多,那你就告诉他,“医生会给妈妈一种神奇的药,这样妈妈就不觉得疼了,然后,他们会在妈妈的肚子上切个口子”。你甚至还可以告诉他,手术分不同类型,有的手术是帮助小宝宝出生的,有的是帮助那些生病和受伤的人。你永远都不会知道,这些信息会在未来的什么时候派上用场——也许将来他或是他身边的人需要动手术呢(但愿这永远都不要发生),他需要相关的知识,这样他就能理解,其实这没什么可怕的,因为他知道这就是妈妈生养小baby的方式。

我有个3岁孩子,我会在不经意之间和她谈这个话题,比如,当我们一起分享照片时,碰巧看到一张我怀孕时的照片,或当我最好的朋友怀孕时。我和她谈论,在妈妈的肚子里住着个小婴儿,以及这个小婴儿是怎么从妈妈的肚子里跑出来的。有时,他会打破砂锅问到底,有时也不会。

告诉你的孩子实情,但要记住你的措辞要符合他的年龄。

                                                                                                            ——-美国妈妈答

 英文的回答

Shauna H. answers from San Diego

I think you can honestly answer this question. Let him know that some Mommies have to have a c-section and that means that you had surgery by a Dr. If he wants to know more about what surgery is, just explain it’s when a Dr. gives you medicine so you feel no pain and then cuts you open. You can even tell him there are different types of surgery – some to help babies come into the world, some to help someone who is sick or hurt. You never know when this information may be useful in the future – God forbid, he or anyone close to him needs to have surgery, he will be armed with knowledge that may help him understand that it’s not so scary because that’s how Mommy gave birth to him.

I have a 3 year old and I just randomly talk about it – when we see a picture of me when I was pregnant for example, or when my best friend was pregnant. I talk about there being a baby in the belly and how he had to come out of my belly to born. Sometimes he asks follow-up questions and other times he doesn’t.

I’ve always read that if they’re asking…they’re ready to hear the answer (just remember to keep it at their level)

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